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9781616204495 English 1616204494 "A story about love, marriage, compromise, parenthood and the difference between the life one imagined and reality."* Fifteen years ago, Krista Bremer, a California-bred feminist, surfer, and aspiring journalist, met Ismail Suayah, sincere, passionate, kind, yet from a very different world. One of eight siblings born in an impoverished fishing village in Libya, Ismail was raised a Muslim--and his faith informed his life. When Krista and Ismail made the decision to become a family, she embarked on a journey she never could have imagined, an accidental jihad: a quest for spiritual and intellectual growth that would open her mind and, more important, her heart. "A bold piece of writing (and thinking) by an incredibly brave woman." --Elizabeth Gilbert, author of The Signature of All Things "A moving, lyrical memoir."-- Kirkus Reviews "Candid and rich." -- Good Housekeeping "Unrelenting candor and gorgeous prose." -- BookPage "Krista Bremer has a very good story." -- The New York Times Book Review "A beautiful account of [Krista's] jihad, or struggle, to find peace within herself and within her marriage." -- The Kansas City Star "Lucid, heartfelt, and profoundly humane . . . Navigates the boundaries of religion and politics to arrive at the universal experience of love." --G. Willow Wilson, author of Alif the Unseen "This is a memoir worth reading." --* Pittsburgh Post-Gazette, "Utterly absorbing . . . A beautiful book." --Cheryl Strayed, author of "Wild" "A bold piece of writing (and thinking) by an incredibly brave woman." --Elizabeth Gilbert, author of "Eat, Pray, Love" Fifteen years ago, Krista Bremer was a surfer and an aspiring journalist who dreamed of a comfortable American life of adventure, romance, and opportunity. Then, on a running trail in North Carolina, she met Ismail, sincere, passionate, kind, yet from a very different world. Raised a Muslim--one of eight siblings born in an impoverished fishing village in Libya--his faith informed his life. When she and Ismail made the decision to become a family, Krista embarked on a journey she never could have imagined, an accidental "jihad: " a quest for spiritual and intellectual growth that would open her mind, and more important, her heart. Praise for "A Tender Struggle "(previously titled "My Accidental Jihad"): "A moving, lyrical memoir . . . A sweet and rewarding journey of a book." --"Kirkus Reviews" "Readers of memoir will welcome this love story about patience and kindness and learning the importance of putting culture first." --"Library Journal" "Lucid, heartfelt, and profoundly humane, "My Accidental Jihad" navigates the boundaries of religion and politics to arrive at the universal experience of love." --G. Willow Wilson, author of "Alif the Unseen" "Bremer's particular story strikingly highlights the (usually more mundane) cultural clashes and compromises inherent to every marriage or long-term relationship." --"Publishers Weekly", "Utterly absorbing . . . A beautiful book." --Cheryl Strayed, author of Wild "A bold piece of writing (and thinking) by an incredibly brave woman." --Elizabeth Gilbert, author of Eat, Pray, Love Fifteen years ago, Krista Bremer was a surfer and an aspiring journalist who dreamed of a comfortable American life of adventure, romance, and opportunity. Then, on a running trail in North Carolina, she met Ismail, sincere, passionate, kind, yet from a very different world. Raised a Muslim--one of eight siblings born in an impoverished fishing village in Libya--his faith informed his life. When she and Ismail made the decision to become a family, Krista embarked on a journey she never could have imagined, an accidental jihad: a quest for spiritual and intellectual growth that would open her mind, and more important, her heart. "A moving, lyrical memoir . . . A sweet and rewarding journey of a book." -- Kirkus Reviews "Readers of memoir will welcome this love story about patience and kindness and learning the importance of putting culture first." -- Library Journal "Lucid, heartfelt, and profoundly humane, My Accidental Jihad navigates the boundaries of religion and politics to arrive at the universal experience of love." --G. Willow Wilson, author of Alif the Unseen "Bremer's particular story strikingly highlights the (usually more mundane) cultural clashes and compromises inherent to every marriage or long-term relationship." -- Publishers Weekly, "Utterly absorbing . . . A beautiful book." -Cheryl Strayed, author of Wild "A bold piece of writing (and thinking) by an incredibly brave woman." -Elizabeth Gilbert, author of Eat, Pray, Love Fifteen years ago, Krista Bremer was a surfer and an aspiring journalist who dreamed of a comfortable American life of adventure, romance, and opportunity. Then, on a running trail in North Carolina, she met Ismail, sincere, passionate, kind, yet from a very different world. Raised a Muslim--one of eight siblings born in an impoverished fishing village in Libya--his faith informed his life. When she and Ismail made the decision to become a family, Krista embarked on a journey she never could have imagined, an accidental jihad: a quest for spiritual and intellectual growth that would open her mind, and more important, her heart. Praise for A Tender Struggle (previously titled My Accidental Jihad ): "A moving, lyrical memoir . . . A sweet and rewarding journey of a book." - Kirkus Reviews "Readers of memoir will welcome this love story about patience and kindness and learning the importance of putting culture first." - Library Journal "Lucid, heartfelt, and profoundly humane, My Accidental Jihad navigates the boundaries of religion and politics to arrive at the universal experience of love." -G. Willow Wilson, author of Alif the Unseen "Bremer's particular story strikingly highlights the (usually more mundane) cultural clashes and compromises inherent to every marriage or long-term relationship." - Publishers Weekly, A woman s unexpected struggle to open her heart and grow beyond herself. This is Krista Bremer s accidental jihad. Fifteen years ago, she was a surfer from a secular middle-class family who dreamed of a comfortable American life of adventure, romance, and opportunity. Then, on a running trail in North Carolina, she met Ismail. Kind, sincere, and passionate, Ismail came from another world: one of eight children, he d been raised in an impoverished fishing village in Libya. When Krista later realized she was carrying his child and she and Ismail made the decision to become a family she embarked on a journey she never could have imagined.Arriving in Libya to meet her relatives, Krista is engulfed by a tribe of extended family for whom faith informs every act, big or small. She discovers both overwhelming hospitality and unimaginable oppression as she spends her days within a circle of Muslim women who challenge her notions of femininity, freedom, and what it means to be family.In this unlikely love story, we see a marriage of opposites, watching Krista and Ismail negotiate unforeseen differences at every turn: when their daughter decides to don a head scarf; during Ismail s monthlong fast of Ramadan; as Krista attempts to explain Christmas trees and Valentine s Day gifts. In any marriage, we might discover that our mate is foreign to us, with vastly different memories and assumptions about home, family, and the world. Krista learns to embrace the differences, both intellectually and emotionally, and on the way finds the meaning of true intimacy.Fascinating, profoundly moving, and enlightening, My Accidental Jihad explores what it means to open one s mind to another culture and just as important, to open one s heart.", Fifteen years ago, Krista Bremer would not have been able to imagine her life today: married to a Libyan-born Muslim, raising two children with Arabic names in the American South. Nor could she have imagined the prejudice she would encounter or the profound ways her marriage would change her perception of the world.But on a running trail in North Carolina, she met Ismail. He was passionate and sincere and he loved adventure as much as she did. From acquaintances to lovers to a couple facing an unexpected pregnancy, this is the story of two people a middle-class American raised in California and a Muslim raised by illiterate parents in an impoverished Libyan fishing village who made a commitment to each other without forsaking their own identities.It is the story of a bicultural marriage and aren t all marriages bicultural? In any marriage, we might discover that our mate is foreign to us, with very different language, memories, and assumptions about home and family. How we respond to difference shapes our world.Profoundly moving and often funny, this meditation on tolerance explores what it means to open our hearts to another culture and to embrace our own. It is Krista Bremer s unexpected struggle to reach beyond herself, her accidental Jihad., Utterly absorbing . . . A beautiful book. Cheryl Strayed, author of "Wild" A bold piece of writing (and thinking) by an incredibly brave woman. Elizabeth Gilbert, author of "Eat, Pray, Love"Fifteen years ago, Krista Bremer was a surfer and an aspiring journalist who dreamed of a comfortable American life of adventure, romance, and opportunity. Then, on a running trail in North Carolina, she met Ismail, sincere, passionate, kind, yet from a very different world. Raised a Muslim--one of eight siblings born in an impoverished fishing village in Libya--his faith informed his life. When she and Ismail made the decision to become a family, Krista embarked on a journey she never could have imagined, an accidental "jihad: " a quest for spiritual and intellectual growth that would open her mind, and more important, her heart. A moving, lyrical memoir . . . A sweet and rewarding journey of a book. "Kirkus Reviews" Readers of memoir will welcome this love story about patience and kindness and learning the importance of putting culture first. "Library Journal" Lucid, heartfelt, and profoundly humane, "My Accidental Jihad" navigates the boundaries of religion and politics to arrive at the universal experience of love. G. Willow Wilson, author of "Alif the Unseen" Bremer s particular story strikingly highlights the (usually more mundane) cultural clashes and compromises inherent to every marriage or long-term relationship. "Publishers Weekly"", Utterly absorbing . . . A beautiful book. Cheryl Strayed, author of Wild A bold piece of writing (and thinking) by an incredibly brave woman. Elizabeth Gilbert, author of Eat, Pray, LoveFifteen years ago, Krista Bremer was a surfer and an aspiring journalist who dreamed of a comfortable American life of adventure, romance, and opportunity. Then, on a running trail in North Carolina, she met Ismail, sincere, passionate, kind, yet from a very different world. Raised a Muslim--one of eight siblings born in an impoverished fishing village in Libya--his faith informed his life. When she and Ismail made the decision to become a family, Krista embarked on a journey she never could have imagined, an accidental jihad: a quest for spiritual and intellectual growth that would open her mind, and more important, her heart. A moving, lyrical memoir . . . A sweet and rewarding journey of a book. Kirkus Reviews Readers of memoir will welcome this love story about patience and kindness and learning the importance of putting culture first. Library Journal Lucid, heartfelt, and profoundly humane, My Accidental Jihad navigates the boundaries of religion and politics to arrive at the universal experience of love. G. Willow Wilson, author of Alif the Unseen Bremer s particular story strikingly highlights the (usually more mundane) cultural clashes and compromises inherent to every marriage or long-term relationship. Publishers Weekly"
9781616204495 English 1616204494 "A story about love, marriage, compromise, parenthood and the difference between the life one imagined and reality."* Fifteen years ago, Krista Bremer, a California-bred feminist, surfer, and aspiring journalist, met Ismail Suayah, sincere, passionate, kind, yet from a very different world. One of eight siblings born in an impoverished fishing village in Libya, Ismail was raised a Muslim--and his faith informed his life. When Krista and Ismail made the decision to become a family, she embarked on a journey she never could have imagined, an accidental jihad: a quest for spiritual and intellectual growth that would open her mind and, more important, her heart. "A bold piece of writing (and thinking) by an incredibly brave woman." --Elizabeth Gilbert, author of The Signature of All Things "A moving, lyrical memoir."-- Kirkus Reviews "Candid and rich." -- Good Housekeeping "Unrelenting candor and gorgeous prose." -- BookPage "Krista Bremer has a very good story." -- The New York Times Book Review "A beautiful account of [Krista's] jihad, or struggle, to find peace within herself and within her marriage." -- The Kansas City Star "Lucid, heartfelt, and profoundly humane . . . Navigates the boundaries of religion and politics to arrive at the universal experience of love." --G. Willow Wilson, author of Alif the Unseen "This is a memoir worth reading." --* Pittsburgh Post-Gazette, "Utterly absorbing . . . A beautiful book." --Cheryl Strayed, author of "Wild" "A bold piece of writing (and thinking) by an incredibly brave woman." --Elizabeth Gilbert, author of "Eat, Pray, Love" Fifteen years ago, Krista Bremer was a surfer and an aspiring journalist who dreamed of a comfortable American life of adventure, romance, and opportunity. Then, on a running trail in North Carolina, she met Ismail, sincere, passionate, kind, yet from a very different world. Raised a Muslim--one of eight siblings born in an impoverished fishing village in Libya--his faith informed his life. When she and Ismail made the decision to become a family, Krista embarked on a journey she never could have imagined, an accidental "jihad: " a quest for spiritual and intellectual growth that would open her mind, and more important, her heart. Praise for "A Tender Struggle "(previously titled "My Accidental Jihad"): "A moving, lyrical memoir . . . A sweet and rewarding journey of a book." --"Kirkus Reviews" "Readers of memoir will welcome this love story about patience and kindness and learning the importance of putting culture first." --"Library Journal" "Lucid, heartfelt, and profoundly humane, "My Accidental Jihad" navigates the boundaries of religion and politics to arrive at the universal experience of love." --G. Willow Wilson, author of "Alif the Unseen" "Bremer's particular story strikingly highlights the (usually more mundane) cultural clashes and compromises inherent to every marriage or long-term relationship." --"Publishers Weekly", "Utterly absorbing . . . A beautiful book." --Cheryl Strayed, author of Wild "A bold piece of writing (and thinking) by an incredibly brave woman." --Elizabeth Gilbert, author of Eat, Pray, Love Fifteen years ago, Krista Bremer was a surfer and an aspiring journalist who dreamed of a comfortable American life of adventure, romance, and opportunity. Then, on a running trail in North Carolina, she met Ismail, sincere, passionate, kind, yet from a very different world. Raised a Muslim--one of eight siblings born in an impoverished fishing village in Libya--his faith informed his life. When she and Ismail made the decision to become a family, Krista embarked on a journey she never could have imagined, an accidental jihad: a quest for spiritual and intellectual growth that would open her mind, and more important, her heart. "A moving, lyrical memoir . . . A sweet and rewarding journey of a book." -- Kirkus Reviews "Readers of memoir will welcome this love story about patience and kindness and learning the importance of putting culture first." -- Library Journal "Lucid, heartfelt, and profoundly humane, My Accidental Jihad navigates the boundaries of religion and politics to arrive at the universal experience of love." --G. Willow Wilson, author of Alif the Unseen "Bremer's particular story strikingly highlights the (usually more mundane) cultural clashes and compromises inherent to every marriage or long-term relationship." -- Publishers Weekly, "Utterly absorbing . . . A beautiful book." -Cheryl Strayed, author of Wild "A bold piece of writing (and thinking) by an incredibly brave woman." -Elizabeth Gilbert, author of Eat, Pray, Love Fifteen years ago, Krista Bremer was a surfer and an aspiring journalist who dreamed of a comfortable American life of adventure, romance, and opportunity. Then, on a running trail in North Carolina, she met Ismail, sincere, passionate, kind, yet from a very different world. Raised a Muslim--one of eight siblings born in an impoverished fishing village in Libya--his faith informed his life. When she and Ismail made the decision to become a family, Krista embarked on a journey she never could have imagined, an accidental jihad: a quest for spiritual and intellectual growth that would open her mind, and more important, her heart. Praise for A Tender Struggle (previously titled My Accidental Jihad ): "A moving, lyrical memoir . . . A sweet and rewarding journey of a book." - Kirkus Reviews "Readers of memoir will welcome this love story about patience and kindness and learning the importance of putting culture first." - Library Journal "Lucid, heartfelt, and profoundly humane, My Accidental Jihad navigates the boundaries of religion and politics to arrive at the universal experience of love." -G. Willow Wilson, author of Alif the Unseen "Bremer's particular story strikingly highlights the (usually more mundane) cultural clashes and compromises inherent to every marriage or long-term relationship." - Publishers Weekly, A woman s unexpected struggle to open her heart and grow beyond herself. This is Krista Bremer s accidental jihad. Fifteen years ago, she was a surfer from a secular middle-class family who dreamed of a comfortable American life of adventure, romance, and opportunity. Then, on a running trail in North Carolina, she met Ismail. Kind, sincere, and passionate, Ismail came from another world: one of eight children, he d been raised in an impoverished fishing village in Libya. When Krista later realized she was carrying his child and she and Ismail made the decision to become a family she embarked on a journey she never could have imagined.Arriving in Libya to meet her relatives, Krista is engulfed by a tribe of extended family for whom faith informs every act, big or small. She discovers both overwhelming hospitality and unimaginable oppression as she spends her days within a circle of Muslim women who challenge her notions of femininity, freedom, and what it means to be family.In this unlikely love story, we see a marriage of opposites, watching Krista and Ismail negotiate unforeseen differences at every turn: when their daughter decides to don a head scarf; during Ismail s monthlong fast of Ramadan; as Krista attempts to explain Christmas trees and Valentine s Day gifts. In any marriage, we might discover that our mate is foreign to us, with vastly different memories and assumptions about home, family, and the world. Krista learns to embrace the differences, both intellectually and emotionally, and on the way finds the meaning of true intimacy.Fascinating, profoundly moving, and enlightening, My Accidental Jihad explores what it means to open one s mind to another culture and just as important, to open one s heart.", Fifteen years ago, Krista Bremer would not have been able to imagine her life today: married to a Libyan-born Muslim, raising two children with Arabic names in the American South. Nor could she have imagined the prejudice she would encounter or the profound ways her marriage would change her perception of the world.But on a running trail in North Carolina, she met Ismail. He was passionate and sincere and he loved adventure as much as she did. From acquaintances to lovers to a couple facing an unexpected pregnancy, this is the story of two people a middle-class American raised in California and a Muslim raised by illiterate parents in an impoverished Libyan fishing village who made a commitment to each other without forsaking their own identities.It is the story of a bicultural marriage and aren t all marriages bicultural? In any marriage, we might discover that our mate is foreign to us, with very different language, memories, and assumptions about home and family. How we respond to difference shapes our world.Profoundly moving and often funny, this meditation on tolerance explores what it means to open our hearts to another culture and to embrace our own. It is Krista Bremer s unexpected struggle to reach beyond herself, her accidental Jihad., Utterly absorbing . . . A beautiful book. Cheryl Strayed, author of "Wild" A bold piece of writing (and thinking) by an incredibly brave woman. Elizabeth Gilbert, author of "Eat, Pray, Love"Fifteen years ago, Krista Bremer was a surfer and an aspiring journalist who dreamed of a comfortable American life of adventure, romance, and opportunity. Then, on a running trail in North Carolina, she met Ismail, sincere, passionate, kind, yet from a very different world. Raised a Muslim--one of eight siblings born in an impoverished fishing village in Libya--his faith informed his life. When she and Ismail made the decision to become a family, Krista embarked on a journey she never could have imagined, an accidental "jihad: " a quest for spiritual and intellectual growth that would open her mind, and more important, her heart. A moving, lyrical memoir . . . A sweet and rewarding journey of a book. "Kirkus Reviews" Readers of memoir will welcome this love story about patience and kindness and learning the importance of putting culture first. "Library Journal" Lucid, heartfelt, and profoundly humane, "My Accidental Jihad" navigates the boundaries of religion and politics to arrive at the universal experience of love. G. Willow Wilson, author of "Alif the Unseen" Bremer s particular story strikingly highlights the (usually more mundane) cultural clashes and compromises inherent to every marriage or long-term relationship. "Publishers Weekly"", Utterly absorbing . . . A beautiful book. Cheryl Strayed, author of Wild A bold piece of writing (and thinking) by an incredibly brave woman. Elizabeth Gilbert, author of Eat, Pray, LoveFifteen years ago, Krista Bremer was a surfer and an aspiring journalist who dreamed of a comfortable American life of adventure, romance, and opportunity. Then, on a running trail in North Carolina, she met Ismail, sincere, passionate, kind, yet from a very different world. Raised a Muslim--one of eight siblings born in an impoverished fishing village in Libya--his faith informed his life. When she and Ismail made the decision to become a family, Krista embarked on a journey she never could have imagined, an accidental jihad: a quest for spiritual and intellectual growth that would open her mind, and more important, her heart. A moving, lyrical memoir . . . A sweet and rewarding journey of a book. Kirkus Reviews Readers of memoir will welcome this love story about patience and kindness and learning the importance of putting culture first. Library Journal Lucid, heartfelt, and profoundly humane, My Accidental Jihad navigates the boundaries of religion and politics to arrive at the universal experience of love. G. Willow Wilson, author of Alif the Unseen Bremer s particular story strikingly highlights the (usually more mundane) cultural clashes and compromises inherent to every marriage or long-term relationship. Publishers Weekly"